We are in such a good place right now, it almost feels too good to be true. These days when the kids are young and we’re tired all the time, they are hard. But they’re so rich in love and happiness; I am so satisfied. Here’s what I mean…
* When Zack and I first moved to Los Angeles (from Minneapolis) we had very few possessions. Basically, we had with us what was inside our Jeep plus a couple of shipped boxes. And that was it. We downsized in a huge way when we moved to LA, not only with the size of our home but with what we owned and used. It has been hard at times — like when I really, really miss not having certain something (which I rarely used when I did have it, oddly) — but for the most part it’s been a simple transition. And when I look around our apartment, anything and everything I see has a very special meaning. I just love that.
* Max and Nat are doing so well together, it’s absolutely precious to see. One of my favorite things about being their mama is watching Max seek out his baby sister just to give her a kiss on her foot. And I’m convinced Natalie knows her brother is little just like her (and therefore super cool), which is why she gives him such big smiles. Of course she loves her mommy and daddy, but she has a special love just for her big brother.
* For months last year, as Max got older (and heavier) and my baby bump with Natalie got larger, I struggled with figuring out how to get our clothes washed. The laundry room in our complex is downstairs, across the way, and then around the corner — it’s not all that accessible. I don’t like to do our wash only on the weekends, in fact I’ve learned there is way less mama drama (ha…) when I get all of my housework done during the week. So just recently I realized if I wash our clothes in the evenings and then air dry them overnight while we’re sleeping not only do we have more space during the daytime to play, but I wake up to a home that smells like fresh laundry. Bonus! We have two fold-up drying racks and they changed my life. (It’s the small things, right?) Doing the wash is one of my favorite things, I actually told Zack once, “don’t hang up the laundry, I want to do it — it’s my favorite part!” Snort.
* I logged my first workout on February 19 with Map My Run, a simple app on my phone that tracks my route via GPS and records my mileage & time. I am a dork and actually counted, I’ve traveled over 71 miles since starting last month. HAVE I MENTIONED I LOVE RUNNING? There’s no use trying to figure out what has changed, because I have never enjoyed running until now. Like, neverrrrrr. But honestly, I’m loving it and here are a few reasons why:
– it’s something I can do with the babes and dog (and it’s free)
– hello, sunshine
– each day the scene is different (I’ve gone on dozens of runs now and never have I taken the same route twice)
– the day goes by so much faster (usually I run late-morning which means we’re home just in time for lunch & naps, suddenly it’s 3pm and the babes have woken up, and in a few hours Zack will be home from work)
– my overall mood has lightened and I sleep better at night
– the final pounds of baby weight are d r o p p i n g off before my eyes.
I’d love to share more about my running journey, but I think a separate post would be best. I have learned so much and am so proud of myself for committing to working out almost 6 days/week. And one of my favorite parts? I found a routine that works really well for our family and with only two workout outfits. So if you see me around town and notice I wore today’s outfit yesterday, and also two days prior, just give me your best smile. Because I warned you ;)
Happy Thursday friends!
You go, girl!! Taking the time for yourself (even with babies in the stroller while you jog) is so important. Not having the right workout clothes kept me from getting out there for a long time. Believe me when I say no one notices. They only notice you are active!
Max and Natalie look so much alike! So cute together.
It IS so important, you are so right! Gone are the days of being so unaware of what my needs are, that kind of behavior is so unhealthy. Even though it takes a lot of energy to load up 2 kids and a dog, plus water and keys and blankets (etc) — working out for 90 minutes actually helps me conquer the day with little effort. I so appreciate your comment, all your comments actually :)
I have location envy right now, big time. Living in the south (and in a particular tiny town that doesn’t even have sidewalks anywhere, and pollen so thick that it literally turns out cars and streets yellow/green), means we don’t go outside much in the spring…and then it gets too darn hot and humid (and not to mention the mosquitoes) to venture out until the summer. I wish we could get more fresh air and go for runs! Until then, I’ll enjoy your instagram pics and log some time at the gym!
Do you know what my seond favorite kind of workout is? Doing turbo kick (or some sort of high-energy workout) in a room filled with other women. The music is so good! Maybe there’s a class you can join in your area? xoxo
I’m so excited for constant sunshine and the ability to get outside again. I cannot wait until it happens here. I have to say it’s hard to make time to take care of ourselves at Mom’s often as we feel there are so many things that ‘must’ be done first. It’s nice to see someone doing just that! It sounds fabulous! :)
Oh man, I can totally relate! If I don’t take care of myself then the entire family suffers. I don’t often skip picking up the house or kitchen at night, but if there’s ever a time that I do, I know it’s what’s best. And Zack knows that is the right decision then, too. Being at home is like a marathon, we have to pace ourselves :)
You amaze this momma in law every day. So proud of the great strides you are making every single day, and I haven’t even mentioned the tremendous energy you have discovered. You are a blessing to all who love you and to so many who wish they knew you. (Or feel like they know you already!) hugs…….Mom Whitley
I’m going to file this in my “favorite comments ever” folder ;D
Thanks mom!!!!!!!
Go Maggie!!!! You are such a motivation….it’s so hard for me to go out for a run because I have 3 kids (homeschool mom problems) but I really do need to start taking time to workout in the mornings. It gives me so much energy getting my body moving! Thanks for the push!
Xo
It so amazing how much good getting outside does for us!! I started taking a walk each day and the fresh air just invigorates me. I’m so happy for you that you’ve found such a lovely routine to fill the days with your little ones!